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Okay, Mike, we're back and we're going to talk about uncommon
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sense today. But before we do that, we need to talk about
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follow up, which I don't have any, which is great. So I don't
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have to talk about my follow up because I had none follow up
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from the last book. Mike, feel free to tell us about yours. Are
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you standing out in any way?
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So mine, mine are a little bit tough. Yeah, you mentioned you
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kind of alluded to the first one was, how can I stand out? And
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this is from a book on saving money. So this was a weird one
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for me kind of where it came up. And I think the thing that I've
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landed on with this is that my competitive advantage per se,
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when it comes to my personal branding is video. So I am
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hoping to do much more video across all the different things.
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So that means my YouTube channel has slowed down a little bit
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while the primary YouTube channel, which is the one where I
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usually talk about obsidian, but I've been talking a little bit
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about creative flywheels and stuff like that. So I want to get
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into a more regular cadence with that, I would love to produce
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a show every single week. That feels like a bit of a stretch
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right now. But that's where we're going to try to get to. The
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other thing, though, is like all the other video I'm recognizing
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there's so many opportunities I have for turning video that I
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record into some additional assets. So I've been rebuilding
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things inside of the library, my online PPM community. And I'm
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sort of revamping things there and I'm building out all these
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individual sales pages for my individual courses. So the
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library is just going to be its own separate community
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subscription. It's going to be much less than the thing I was
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trying to do, which was you get all the cohorts and things just
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let people join the community. And then if they want to buy the
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courses cohorts, all the cart, they can they can do that. So
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circles, the background for all this or the infrastructure for
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all this and circle, you need to have like separate pages for
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all those individual courses, I'm building all of those out and
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I'm recognizing that I have all this material, right? And the
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bottleneck is I need to sit down and I need to re record it,
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then I need to edit all that, put it all up there, we need to
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record like promo videos for all those courses. And so I have a
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video editor that I've been working with on my secondary
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channel, which is like the 15 minute book review videos that
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point people to the bookworm episodes that we talk about
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some of these books. And he's doing a great job and has
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capacity. And is like, Hey, I could help with this. That the
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other thing is like, you mentioned a cohort, like I could
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take your cohort videos and break them apart. You can have
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like a self paced version. And I was like, that all sounds
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fantastic. So starting in September, I'm going to be up in
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the stuff that I throw at him a little bit. And we're just
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going to create so many video assets. I'm going to start doing
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a little bit more in terms of shorts and the social media
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stuff. Just today, by the way, long term follow up, I started
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working with an assistant, we scheduled out a week's worth of
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social media posts. I'm posting three times per day across
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different platforms. And it feels amazing. We've got the whole
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week scheduled out.
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Are you auto posting those or are you like manually posting
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those every time you're doing it? Oh, no, we're scheduling them
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in and typefully. I'm probably going to dip into the specific
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platforms. And you know, if people comment or engage, you
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know, that way. But I don't know exactly what that's going to
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look like. I'm not just going to turn on the notifications on my
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my phone so I can get that part out yet. But step one post
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consistently seems to be working. Yeah, so I think videos is
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one of videos, the big way that I I stand out. And I want to do
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more of that. But other than that, I don't have anything super
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specific. I still would consider that to be a completed
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action item, though. So I don't think it necessarily was I'm
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going to talk about this or I'm going to use this angle or that
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sort of thing. I really think that one's done in my my
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perspective. The other one is save more while we're moving.
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That's not happening. So you're buying a house. Yeah, I've been
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selling a house and stuff. Yeah, so I will. I do think we've
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made progress on this one too, though, because what that has
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basically done is reset everything. And so we've kind of
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gone back to the basics with budgeting and looking at expenses
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and do we do this? Do we not do that all that kind of stuff?
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So we're reconsidering everything and cutting a few things. So I
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think that will translate into saving more, but there's just
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not a specific savings account that we're going to see ticking
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up just yet. Yeah, good. Good, good, good. Well, that's great.
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I mean, I think the video move is like the chopping it up and
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getting it out in more and more in different places. The hard
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part, that's a moving target, right? Like, you know, you can
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do certain things and then they change things on you and you
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can do certain things. But I'm excited to see see you putting
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things out in different places. That's awesome.
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Yeah, I did this YAP challenge not too long ago. And that got me
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doing some different type of types of video right after I
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started that I got crazy busy with everything else. So I sort of
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dropped it a little bit. But yeah, I want to do some of those. I
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want to do these shorts, which tie to the long form book
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reviews, which tie ultimately to bookworm. So lots of ideas for
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video that I want to do. But just the live me on video, I think
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that is the competitive advantage. Or I'm not even know if it's
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competitive advantage. It's the most authentic way that I can
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connect with my ideal customer, my audience per se. The bottleneck
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to me doing that at a higher level is really a lot of the
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editing and the publishing and get more help with that. So
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quickly, I'm not the bottleneck pretty soon. Yeah, it's awesome.
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Alright, so let's go ahead and move on. And let's talk about
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today's book. We are covering uncommon sense, rethinking
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ordinary problems in extraordinary ways by William R. Brody
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with Mike Field. Now, William R. Brody is the main author of
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this. It came out of a class that he taught at Johns Hopkins
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University. What's interesting about this, Mike, is I actually
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have in my notebooks before I ever knew anything about this
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book. So this book was published in April of 2026. Before I ever
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knew anything about this, I have a class called not so common
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sense written down in the courses I would like to teach one
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day. And it would be a university level class. So not to go too
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deep into this, but I teach engineering here at CCU. The
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most I get to expand outside of my engineering world at CCU is
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every so often, I will teach a statistics class for non science
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and engineering students. So just the general population of
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student here, statistics, and then very, very seldom at this
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point, I teach a science for non science majors class. But
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that's like, I mean, that doesn't even happen very often at all.
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It hasn't happened in like three or four years. So I was like,
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well, I want to interact with more than just the engineers. I'm
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going to teach this not so common sense class. I don't care
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if the university gives me credit for it. I don't care about
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anything. Like, I'll do it. Like, and the challenge of it has
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been finding a time to do it, because the best time to do it
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would be in the evenings. And it would be an evening where
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they don't have a lot of other stuff. But it's like, I don't
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want to give up one of my evenings for a class that nobody,
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you know, is crediting or anything like that. And I'm like,
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okay, I'm not going to do that yet. But this is why this book
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struck me as I was like, Oh, he's gonna, he's gonna do an
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uncommon sense book. It's like, these are just things that you
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should know. If you're going through university, I was like, I
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have this. And Mike, I have like 15 different topics written down
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in, in my thing, because I'm trying to do like, okay, I could
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do one a week, I could do one topic a week. And I really want
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to do this still. So this is why this book hit me. This is like
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the background of why I was like, Mike, we got to do this book.
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This book sounds, sounds awesome. So I assumed you knew
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nothing about this book had never seen this book or never
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like, it never even crushed a radar. But I wanted to see how he
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did it because that it influences if I ever get a chance to do
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this, how I'm going to do it. Nice. Yeah. The the class sounds
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pretty interesting. And so you've basically just been collecting
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ideas for this, right? You haven't done anything with this
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yet? Okay. After reading this book, are you more or less likely
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to do it? Oh, so I'm more likely to do it because I think some of
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the things he covers in this class are good. But I think
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they're a little too, a little too theoretical and not
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tangible enough. And my version of the class is actually much
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more tangible. It's like, these are common sense things that you
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will experience when you leave this university, and you must
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know how to do them. Like you must know how to do this. So an
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example of this would be, and I do this with my my seniors in
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their first semester before they before they was our first
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semester senior year. So, you know, right before they
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graduate, we buy a house. Like we buy a we buy a fake house,
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right? And I go, okay. And like the way I start them off on it
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is I say, what do you want in your house? And they all, oh, we
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want three bedrooms and two bathrooms. And I want this and I
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want an acre and a half a land. And I want blah, blah. And I
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say, okay, where do you want to do it? And they tell me where
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they want to do it. And we go to those markets, and we look
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up, we go to Zillow or Redfin or whatever, and we look up that
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house. And then they immediately go, and like their eyes get
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real big. And they're like, well, how on earth does anyone ever
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afford this thing that I really want? And I go, and we've just
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reached the point. But like through that, I teach them the
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idea of like the rent versus buy curve. I teach them primary
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mortgage insurance and like 20 80 20, you know, putting 20% down
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versus not putting 20% down having to pay PMI. So it's like
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there's all these like common sense things that aren't common
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sense until you've been through them once. Because nobody
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teaches you like, you know, you just get this bill, it's like,
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what's this extra couple hundred dollars I have to pay every
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month? It's like, Oh, well, that's because you didn't put 20%
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down. And the bank thinks you're a flight risk. So they are going
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to cover their own self by having you pay for their insurance
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policy. And it's like, whoa, like everybody kind of gives you
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that look. And then we talk about strategies, it's like, okay,
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if you want to buy that house eventually one day, how do you
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start? Then how do you turn that in that equity into the next
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equity until you get up to the house that you want to buy? But
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it's like, this has nothing to do with my engineering world.
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Like, you know, like the closest I can get into my engineering
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world is this like engineering economics, but it's really not
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engineering economics. It's just economics. It's just home
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buying. So like, that's an example of why, like, I love this
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stuff because it helps the students like really, really
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helps the students figure out life when they leave here.
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Yeah, one of the things that Toby had to do last year, I
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believe, with the classical conversation stuff is they have
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this cost of living exercise, where they go through all that
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stuff. And it's okay, so where are you going to live? But they
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go further than like the grocery stuff, the car,
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transportation stuff, you know, the full cost of living once
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you're out on your own. And I always thought that was a
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pretty cool, pretty cool exercise. I think that's cool,
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even if it is a little bit later than Toby came to it, I
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think it is neat that you incorporate that into your
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curriculum, because I think the scenario you described, which
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is, oh, I never really thought about this before, is
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probably pretty common. That was probably me back in the day,
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if I had been in that situation too. So good on you for doing
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that sort of thing. But yeah, interesting, because I'm not
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sure, is that the type of stuff that he's covering in his
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uncommon sense class? Because he's, you know, former Dean of
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John Hopkins Hospital, right? And yeah, a lot of like medical
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stories and stuff in here, which is not what I was expecting.
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- His are much more like proverb, like his are much more
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wisdom, like key, big idea, which is good. And like I'm not
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knocking his at all, mine is just much more tangible,
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practical, like go out into the world and have common sense.
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So that's the nature of the book. That's why I wanted to
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cover the book. So thank you for coming along on this journey
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with me. This by no means, this book by no means, like, told
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me, oh, somebody's already done it. Like, you know, there's no
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point in doing it, because the other thing is like, there's
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students everywhere that don't get to go through this guy's
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class. So, I mean, like everybody needs this stuff. And then
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there may have been a couple things. Like, for instance, one
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of the chapters to chapter four we'll get to is the Turtle
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and the Fence post. I think that principle is absolute genius.
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And I was like, so that's one that I'll be like, okay, I would
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steal that one. I would bring that one into my class and be like,
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listen, if you see a Turtle and Fence post, it didn't get there
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by itself. You got to figure out why, you know, why it's there.
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So, but before we do that, let's get into the introduction of
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the book. We kind of talked a little bit about it. He is a
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he is basically his most recent stint was the former president
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of Johns Hopkins. He was an MD, got into radiology, I believe.
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And then started a company dealing with like X-ray technology.
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What was it like the 90s mic 80s 90s something like that? I
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can't remember exactly when it was. Yeah, I don't I don't know
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and I I'm not sure it really matters. Yeah. Some of the
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stuff that he he describes in the book in terms of like the
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dating of when these things happened. I get probably why he he
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did it. He's talking about this breakthrough technology in the
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the medical field where people are like, Oh, yeah, well, that
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was, you know, a long time ago. But honestly, he could have left
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out the dates completely and it would end the exact same
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effect for me. Exactly. I I agree completely. The the core is I
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got my MD or my MD. I was an entrepreneur through a bunch of
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like craziness. I ended up becoming the president and I got
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to teach this class. And here's my book right now. And this this
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book comes out of this class. That's like the gist of the
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introduction for me. And where this book comes from. Is there
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anything else that you think is relevant in terms of the
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introduction? No, I didn't jot down anything from the
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introduction. I thought it was kind of useless to be. Yeah. Yeah.
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Yeah. Okay. So let's let's roll right into chapter one. So
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there's 12 chapters in this book. Basically, the format of the
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book is every chapter is around a story. And then there's a key
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learning about that. And that's the uncommon sense principle he
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wants to teach you. And then there's stories. So I'm going to
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probably do I'm going to do my best to get most of the high
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level stories. Mike, if I forget one, or if I leave it out,
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just accidentally, help me help me out with the stories. But
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chapter one is called only the strong survive. And basically,
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he is sent to Greece to vet this doctor who has a miracle cure
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for cancer. And like the people were like, Oh my gosh, like we
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need to know if this guy's like actually got a cure or what's
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going on. And he gets there and he starts talking to the
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individual. And he realizes this guy doesn't like he doesn't
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have anything. It's just a matter of the people who are
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still around are the ones who are promoting him, right? The
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survivors are the ones who are promoting like what he did.
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He's not going and following up with any of the people who
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either passed away from cancer or didn't have success after
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having seen him. And like that's the core principle. The core
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principle is like you have to look at the entire picture. You
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can't just look at the positive cases of what you want to do.
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But so often marketing and PR and all these other places,
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they'll just tell us about the positives. They won't tell us
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about the full the full gamut. So the nature of only the strong
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survive, at least from my perspective was, Hey, look at the
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whole look at the whole perspective or the whole spectrum,
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not just the survivors.
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Yeah, the the stories, to be honest, like they were
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interesting, but the significance of them, I feel was
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completely wasted on me because I have zero medical background.
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Me to me to the same way. Yeah, so most of my notes here are
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regarding the the big ideas from the the different chapters. So
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a couple of things I jotted down in this first one. The first is
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the infinite monkey theorem. Okay, which is basically any
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sequence of events will eventually occur if the event
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has a non zero probability of happening and we are provided
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with an infinite amount of time. It's the infinite time scale
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argument from ATP. And then there's the survivorship bias, I
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would argue that's probably the the bigger idea from this
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chapter. Because we tend to think that because somebody or
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something survived that it was better or stronger and we
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discount the role of luck, Americans in general,
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significantly discount the role of of luck. I guess the term
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for that would be like the individualism, right? We think
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it's based on our ability or our smarts. A lot of times it's
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just we were in the right place at the right time. And he
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mentions that good luck is hard to detect. It looks like
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something that you've earned, which just feeds into that
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American ideal of, well, you know, this happened to me because I
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deserved it because I did these things prior. And that's, you
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know, the reason. And I know that I am susceptible to this and I
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fall into this. But I also like, don't really know what to do
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with this. I've had conversations with people about this
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before. It's like, yeah, you're probably right. But what do
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I, what am I supposed to do? Just stop trying.
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Well, it said that a couple of things came out of this for me
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is this is like where you see that person who is incredibly
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successful. They they leave the company to go start their own
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company. And it's absolutely a miserable failure. And it's
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like, it's not necessarily that they're a failure. You know,
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it's a matter of like, listen, sometimes things work out and
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sometimes they don't. Sometimes you're in the right place at
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the right time. And sometimes you're not, you know,
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sometimes you walk into the room and there's four people in
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there who, you know, lift your sails in a way that like just
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have you take off. The second one was I love the the 70s study
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that he references here, where they they followed these
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families. It's a 20 year study that follows these families. And
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basically, there were two characteristics that separated
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successful from unsuccessful. The first one was that you are
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competent at your job. And the second one was that you were
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lucky. And it's like it had nothing to do with the right
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schools, high IQ, strong college test results, good grades,
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or even choosing it was like, one, are you competent at what you
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do? And two, are you lucky? And I was like, man, what are we
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going to do? Like, holy cow. So, but I still think like the points
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coming out of this chapter are valid, you know, like, watch
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survivors should buy us and then think about how luck factors
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into into a lot of stuff. Yeah, I think the big takeaway with
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the conversation around luck is really just realizing that you're
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not as great as maybe you think you are, because you tend to
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look backward based on the success that you had and think
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that you built that you did that, right? And maybe there's a
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little bit of that, but being grateful for the opportunity
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regardless of how big a role you had in bringing it about. And
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likewise, if if things haven't gone your way, don't feel like
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your victim in life is unfair, really just keep trying, because
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at some point, your luck will change. Yeah, yeah, exactly.
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Exactly. Alright, you ready to move to chapter two? Yeah, let's do
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it. Okay, so chapter two is one that I think many of us have
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heard before it's perfect is the enemy of good. And basically,
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it's the idea that you're not always going to be able to do the
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perfect work or you're not always going to be able to do put
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the time into it. The story here is basically he had a
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radiologist friend who went to Germany and had all this whole
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like warehouse full of scans or like, what would they be
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photographs? I don't know what they are. X-ray photo X-ray
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photographs. And he had to look through them. And he basically
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just drew a line in the middle of the room. And he said, those
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ones are too old. We're not even going to care about this, like
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either people have moved on, or they've gone and gotten another
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one or whatever it is. And we just going to take those. And in
00:21:45
a perfect world, I would look at all of these. In this world, I
00:21:49
can only look at so many of them. So I'm just going to draw a
00:21:51
line and I'm going to cut it over. And Mike, what's interesting
00:21:54
about this to me is I think about this with your what you just
00:21:58
said, from your follow up in terms of making more video
00:22:01
content. And I say, Mike is perfect, the enemy of good here,
00:22:06
right? Like, you on camera telling people information, that's
00:22:11
the win. Is it you on camera telling them information with
00:22:16
perfectly edited stuff or, you know, like this kind of thing? And
00:22:19
it's like, I don't know if it is. It's not now granted. I'm not
00:22:22
telling you, yeah, I'm not telling you to make poor quality
00:22:25
stuff. By no means am I telling you to make poor quality
00:22:27
stuff. But I know that your baseline having, having been
00:22:31
friends with you and done this show with you, your baseline is
00:22:34
10 times better than half of the stuff that's on YouTube right
00:22:37
now. So which is why I have to delegate it because then it's
00:22:41
good enough. I didn't do any of it. And it's not worth trying to
00:22:45
tweak the last 10%. Because that's it's going to take forever.
00:22:51
So so I mean, that's but that's the general gist of what we're
00:22:53
talking about here is basically, hey, get to and there's another
00:22:59
buddy or another person we've read, Mike, that I don't remember
00:23:01
who it who it was. But basically, it's like most great leaders
00:23:04
make decisions based on 80% information. They don't need that
00:23:07
other 20% of the information and they can make a good enough
00:23:09
decision on 80% of the information. And and that's the kind of
00:23:12
gist I get around here. So this one didn't didn't really blow me
00:23:15
away. It was kind of like, yeah, okay, I've heard that before.
00:23:18
Makes sense. Yeah, I the the chapter, you mentioned this is
00:23:23
something that we're familiar with, perfect being the enemy of
00:23:26
good. I'm actually familiar with it in the inverse. And I'm not
00:23:30
sure if that's true for you as well, where let's see, so good
00:23:36
would be the enemy of the best in terms of like compromising. And
00:23:41
this is good enough. Right, but this is this is backwards compared
00:23:47
to that, which I think is intentional. And to your point,
00:23:51
like, I'm the perfect case study for this, because I am a
00:23:54
perfectionist, that will sit there and edit the thing over and
00:23:57
over and over again, instead of just putting it out into the
00:23:59
world. So that is the goal there, we got to get in the the reps.
00:24:06
There's a concept in here about heuristic thinking that I kind of
00:24:10
liked, which is an everyday method of employing rules with
00:24:13
them inherited wisdom, mental shortcuts, etc, to simplify
00:24:16
complex problems and almost instantly assess probabilities.
00:24:21
But I don't like the term heuristic thinking. I really think
00:24:25
what it's describing here, here is sort of mental models. And
00:24:29
really, if I were to summarize this book, it's a sampling of
00:24:34
of mental models that he's chosen to add to this, this, I
00:24:38
don't know if this is meant to be a course curriculum per se. But
00:24:41
that's definitely like the top topics that he talks about here
00:24:47
could fit into a curriculum like that. But I didn't, I didn't
00:24:50
now understand going into it, you know, do you know if this was
00:24:52
actually like, this is what he teaches in that curriculum, or
00:24:55
is this just the type of stuff that he covers? That makes
00:24:59
sense? So so my gist on this is, and I don't know this or a
00:25:03
fact, but I know this like thinking about universities, he's
00:25:05
at a big university, he's the president of the big university,
00:25:08
he gets zero time with students. So like, and like the most
00:25:12
time he would get with students is somebody who's got a major,
00:25:14
major issue, their world's on fire, and he's trying to solve
00:25:17
that problem for them, or he like got got pulled into it. So
00:25:21
this class, I bet you is run like a seminar class, where it's
00:25:25
like once a week, he can do whatever he wants. It's just
00:25:28
coming in and talking or doing everything. So when you say
00:25:31
like curriculum, it's not like a business class that you're
00:25:35
used to, or it's not like a communication class we're used to,
00:25:38
it's really whatever he wants to do, and he just wants to do it
00:25:41
to interact with students more because he loves interacting
00:25:43
with students, like that would be my my take on the way this
00:25:45
class ran.
00:25:46
Okay, it's been a while since I was in a college classroom, I
00:25:49
guess. But yeah, this is I mean, the mental models that he
00:25:55
describes here are kind of interesting, but left me with
00:26:00
the question of why did he choose the ones that he did,
00:26:03
especially when you compare it to something like, super
00:26:06
thinking, I can't remember, did you read that one with me?
00:26:09
Yeah, we read super thinking. I didn't read, I didn't read the
00:26:12
other mental models book, though, the one that you I know you
00:26:14
liked it a lot. But I can't yeah, that's the the great mental
00:26:17
models by Shane Parrish. Yeah, he republished those recently
00:26:24
in the Solomon a box set now, which I liked those books, I
00:26:29
think better than super thinking but super thinking is sort of
00:26:33
like an encyclopedia of all the potential mental models. So I'm
00:26:38
he's talking about these different chapters. And I was
00:26:40
like, which one does this map on to without pulling up the
00:26:42
mind map and seeing, you know, the hundreds that are available.
00:26:45
Yep. I don't know, that was just kind of the question in the
00:26:48
back of my head is like, why these ones? Yeah, it probably
00:26:51
just because he liked them, right? Like, I mean, I don't I
00:26:53
really don't think there was much more to it than that that he
00:26:55
liked these ones. And that's a hard part for me with a book like
00:26:58
this is what exactly are we trying to teach here? What is the
00:27:07
outcome of having someone like me read this book? What am I going
00:27:13
to be able to do after this that I wasn't able to do prior? Or
00:27:17
how is this going to solve a specific problem that I'm facing?
00:27:21
You know, unless your goal was to teach people about turtles on
00:27:24
fence posts, I'm not sure what the value proposition necessarily
00:27:29
is here. Okay, understood. I'm excited to hear your style in
00:27:33
writing section. I'm very excited to hear your stuff. That's
00:27:35
actually not foreshadowing. I do. I did like this book. I like
00:27:41
the conversation and I love any conversation about mental
00:27:44
models, to be honest. But like, why these, you know, it seems
00:27:48
like a weird collection, other than, you know, he's got stories
00:27:51
to, to anchor these two. And I like, I think that's it. Like,
00:27:56
I really think that's it. I think it's like, Oh, well, what are
00:27:58
these stories I've collected and the core principles out of them
00:28:02
over the however many years I've taught this? These are what
00:28:04
these are the ones that have run true with most students. I'm
00:28:07
going to put into a book and it'll live forever. Right? It'll
00:28:10
live beyond me forever. So let's roll to chapter three. All
00:28:15
right. Chapter three is your salary will not make you rich.
00:28:19
Right? So the story out of this one is Michael Bloomberg is on
00:28:23
the board of Johns Hopkins. And he, I don't know, they go
00:28:27
somewhere, some island or some retreat or I forget what they
00:28:31
were doing. But Bloomberg invites him and he comes there and he
00:28:33
goes, Hey, your entire job over this week, this next weekend is
00:28:38
to convince me to not run for the mayor of New York. And like,
00:28:42
the whole story is basically, you know, Michael Bloomberg has
00:28:46
more money than anybody knows what to do with at this point.
00:28:50
And why on earth would he want to take on the social
00:28:53
responsibility and the civil servant duties of being the
00:28:56
mayor of New York and basically just getting yelled at for like
00:29:00
however long he's he's the mayor, you put out fires and you get
00:29:03
yelled at. And he said, he told him he's like, you should not do
00:29:06
this. This is dumb. And then Michael Bloomberg goes on to end
00:29:09
up being the mayor of New York. And he I forget how long he was
00:29:12
the mayor of New York, but it was not a small amount of time. It
00:29:14
was actually a pretty decent amount of time. So like the idea
00:29:18
is you need something more which we've we've read a bunch of
00:29:22
books about this that like, you can get the big salary and
00:29:26
you're still going to feel that whole you can get the accolades
00:29:30
and the promotions and the titles and whatever it is. And
00:29:33
you're still going to feel that whole that there's got to be
00:29:36
some idea of like what your values are, what your goals are,
00:29:42
and then what level was enough? Like what is enough for me to
00:29:45
say like, Hey, I've I've done what I set out to do. And like he,
00:29:51
this guy has like a really wide range of examples that he gives
00:29:55
right because here he ties into Ecclesiastes, right? So like, I
00:29:58
mean, he's pulling stuff from the Bible, he's pulling stuff from
00:30:00
medical research, he's pulling stuff from social social science
00:30:03
research. So it's like, it's kind of wild how diverse his
00:30:07
examples are. And I just think, you know, it's it's a fun way
00:30:13
to see how he puts this together. I don't know that I always
00:30:17
loved it. But it's a fun it's a fun thing to see how somebody
00:30:21
else puts puts this together. So that's the nature in my mind of
00:30:25
this chapter is basically, Hey, there's always going to be a
00:30:28
bigger, better thing out there. You've got to figure out what's
00:30:31
enough for you and what your goals are and what your values
00:30:33
are. That's what that's what I took away. Mike, how about
00:30:35
the concept of enough is an interesting idea here. But
00:30:40
otherwise, this is a really weird chapter to read after we
00:30:44
just finished the psychology of money. Yeah, everything else
00:30:48
is like, yeah, I'm gonna go listen to Morgan Howse will talk
00:30:51
about this instead. He does talk about the the concept of you
00:30:59
spend whatever is in your your pocket. And that just kind of
00:31:05
hits home on the importance of having a plan for or budget for
00:31:10
how you're going to spend your money going back to my action
00:31:14
item. But yeah, the only other thing really here that I jotted
00:31:19
down was the golden rule of wealth creation. People really
00:31:22
become truly wealthy from just earning a big salary. They
00:31:25
become wealthy by owning things. I jotted that down kind of
00:31:28
because it feels like it's in contradiction to the psychology
00:31:32
of money. And I get where he's coming from, you know, if you're
00:31:35
going to become really wealthy, you got to have some assets that
00:31:39
you're owning. But that's not the approach Morgan Howse will
00:31:45
talked about. And I feel like that's the one that's more it's
00:31:49
it's more interesting to me and also probably more palatable
00:31:53
for just about everybody else.
00:31:55
Yeah. And no, and nowhere did he mention savings at all in
00:31:59
this chapter, which Morgan Howse goes goes wild on savings. Yeah,
00:32:03
you ready to you ready to go chapter four? Let's do it.
00:32:06
All right, chapter four is probably my favorite chapter.
00:32:09
This is the turtle on the fence post. And basically, I don't
00:32:15
remember where the story came from. Like, do you remember where
00:32:17
the the fence post story came from?
00:32:21
He mentioned it in the book, but I don't recall it. Basically,
00:32:26
you know, if you see it, it's like when one of those old
00:32:29
colloquial sayings, like a Mark Twain is him, you know, if you
00:32:32
see a turtle on a fence post, he didn't get there by himself.
00:32:35
Yeah. Or there's another one about like, if you, if you see a
00:32:39
fence before tearing it down, ask somebody why the fence exists
00:32:43
there. I forget who like there's another saying that's like that
00:32:45
ask somebody why they built a fence. So the story, the story
00:32:48
behind this one is he's the president of Johns Hopkins. There's
00:32:51
this ugly plywood box structure, like in this one part of
00:32:56
campus. And one of the board of trustees members says, Hey,
00:32:59
William, why is that box there? That's ugly. It's terrible. Like
00:33:04
there's no reason that that box should be there. So he, like
00:33:07
either later that day or the next day, calls facilities and
00:33:10
says facilities tear that box down, but get rid of that box. We
00:33:13
don't need that box there. It's ugly and nobody likes it and
00:33:15
all this stuff. So he does that. And it basically destroys this
00:33:19
researcher's study. It messes up their whole lab. The number that
00:33:24
he throws out is $75,000 to relocate the lab. It ended up
00:33:27
costing the university because he said, and didn't ask enough
00:33:32
questions. He didn't ask why the turtle was on the fence post. He
00:33:35
didn't ask why the plywood box was there. And Mike, I like, if I
00:33:40
got nothing out of this book, I love this idea. Like when you're
00:33:44
walking through and you see something and you're like, Whoa,
00:33:48
that's weird. Like that, like what's going on with that? Like
00:33:52
just dig into it more. Ask the five wise, try to figure out what
00:33:57
the heck is going on with that thing. Because usually that
00:33:59
stuff doesn't just randomly happen. Like it's there for a
00:34:03
reason. You know, there's something there. And that's that
00:34:06
for me for this book, not that it's my only one I got out of
00:34:09
this book. That's a win for me for reading this book, the turtle
00:34:11
and the fence post analogy.
00:34:13
Now you probably don't even need the five wise, you just need
00:34:15
to ask why. Yes. When you see something that seems to have no
00:34:19
purpose, dig deep enough and you'll probably find it. I think
00:34:23
that's the the takeaway there. The other thing that jumped out to
00:34:28
me from this chapter is always keep an eye out for turtles with
00:34:31
dollar signs on them pointing out that sometimes if you ignore
00:34:35
that stuff, it can be really expensive. It can be really
00:34:38
expensive mistake to the point that you were talking about
00:34:41
earlier. You know, if you were to summarize the advice though
00:34:45
from this chapter, it's actually I think best put a little bit
00:34:49
differently and towards the beginning of the chapter, he
00:34:51
says the most crucial key to smarter decision making in
00:34:55
situations involving other humans is paying close attention to
00:34:59
human behavior. And the larger point associated with that in
00:35:03
this chapter, basically, is that everyone is going to act in
00:35:07
their own self interest. And if you recognize that, then you will
00:35:12
understand why people do a lot of the things that they that
00:35:16
they do. Actually, it's kind of getting into the next chapter
00:35:18
two, I guess, but yes, it is. Yeah, the turtle on a fence post,
00:35:22
it's a cool like metaphor or analogy. I'm not even sure which
00:35:26
one which one that is. But I remember when I read that, I got
00:35:32
done with it. I was like, okay, now, what do I actually do with
00:35:35
this? Like, do I go around looking for things that are out of
00:35:39
place? Or do I just when I noticed that stuff? Uh huh. Why
00:35:43
in the world is that the way that it is? That's where I dig.
00:35:46
And that feels weird to me not to have an immediate application
00:35:49
of an action item like that is like, keep this in mind in case
00:35:53
you come across this. But I do get that you absolutely will. So
00:35:57
I do think it's one of the more I agree with you. It's one of
00:36:02
the better chapters in the book because of that powerful
00:36:04
visual. Yeah. Yeah, that and it's definitely the second for me.
00:36:08
It's a matter of like, I'm not going to go around looking for
00:36:10
turtles on fence posts, because I think there are enough of them
00:36:14
that they'll find me. But I'm going to ask more questions about
00:36:18
them now and it'd be like, wait a minute, that doesn't make any
00:36:21
sense. Or that's unusual. Why are we doing it that way? And like,
00:36:25
let somebody, you know, kind of convince me. And then I also
00:36:29
understand that there are going to be certain turtles with dollar
00:36:31
signs on them that I'm going to go. Yeah, I just don't, I don't
00:36:34
care about that turtle. Like, we're just going to let that
00:36:36
turtle, let that turtle be there. And somebody, somebody needs
00:36:40
that turtle to be there for whatever they're doing. So no, I
00:36:43
really liked, I really liked this chapter. But I'm ready to move
00:36:46
to five if you are. All right, sure. Let's do it. Okay, so you,
00:36:49
you alluded to this, which was, which was good is chapter five is
00:36:52
called actually people do make sense. The story in this one is
00:36:56
basically, he's talking to the CEO of a pharmaceutical company, I
00:37:03
think, and then he's talking to somebody else that had had to do
00:37:07
with Medicare Part D, right? So this was the kind of the drug
00:37:11
portion of Medicare and how they they paid it. This is around
00:37:13
2003. And the CEO was in a good mood. And then I the other
00:37:18
individual that can economist or I forget who it was was in a
00:37:21
really bad mood about it. And he was like, well, that doesn't
00:37:23
make any sense. Like, why are these two people so so divided on
00:37:27
it? And what ended up happening was the pharma guy, the CEO of
00:37:31
the big pharma had like in when they wrote that legislation, it
00:37:34
locked in like price fixing for like 20 years. So like they
00:37:38
were just like, yes, this is amazing, right? Like we have, we
00:37:41
are locked in for the next 20 years. And this is going to be
00:37:43
great in terms of big profits. And the economist was just like,
00:37:46
we just ruined everything. Like we absolutely just ruined the
00:37:49
free market of this, of the way this works. And the whole point
00:37:54
of what he's trying to get across here to kind of summarize it as
00:37:57
high level as you can is both people are justified in the way
00:38:02
they think about that. Like they're very different opinions.
00:38:05
They both think kind of opposite about that. And they both
00:38:08
have their their reason why they do. And both of those reasons
00:38:12
are right from the perspective that you look at it. And I think
00:38:17
this is a good one is like, okay, I may think one thing about
00:38:21
something and somebody else thinks completely differently about
00:38:23
it. Do I go that level deeper? And do I ask them, Hey, why do
00:38:27
you think that way? Like, what's your reasoning for thinking
00:38:30
that XYZ, you know, it's true and that you're either happy or
00:38:34
really sad about that? But most of the time I don't do that. And
00:38:37
I think with the internet, we really don't do that. Like with
00:38:39
the internet, we dig into our little niche groups. And we
00:38:44
say like, they're wrong and terrible and horrible. And can
00:38:47
you believe they would even think that when we don't even go
00:38:49
like, Hey, why, why are you concerned about whatever it is
00:38:52
XYZ? So I think it's a really interesting kind of principle
00:38:56
high level principle.
00:38:58
I agree with you. It is a interesting high level principle.
00:39:01
The thing that stood out to me the most from this chapter, though,
00:39:05
was that people are driven more by fear than they are by greed.
00:39:10
I don't know, like it just when I think about that, and then I
00:39:15
taken into consideration the stuff that you were talking about
00:39:17
and people always act on their own self interest. Instead of
00:39:21
going into it thinking, what are they trying to manipulate and
00:39:27
make happen, you know, behind closed doors? Really, it's what
00:39:31
is the thing that they are afraid of? I don't know, it's like
00:39:35
that, that shift makes it more human and relatable and not so
00:39:42
much like their jerks just trying to screw me over.
00:39:46
No, agreed. Yeah, agree completely. Yeah. I think that's
00:39:49
where I get my first action item from Mike is asking this
00:39:53
question. And it's not going to be a good one for me to follow up
00:39:56
on when we record the next episode. But like, I want to have
00:40:00
this on the top of mind where when I go into a meeting and
00:40:03
somebody is, you know, going off or they're upset about
00:40:07
something or they're trying to figure out it's like, instead
00:40:09
of asking like, what do they want? What are they afraid of?
00:40:13
Like, ask the question of like, what are they afraid of right
00:40:15
now? Because something's driving this? And I want to see if
00:40:17
that rings true. You know, a student comes into me and they're
00:40:20
freaking out about something. It's like, what are you afraid
00:40:21
of? Oh, it might be that I'm not going to graduate or that,
00:40:24
you know, financial aid or whatever it might be. So that's
00:40:27
my first action item coming in, coming into our book.
00:40:30
Nice. All right, anything else from this chapter? No, let's
00:40:35
talk about room 102 room 102. This chapter was weird to me,
00:40:41
right? Like, this chapter was super weird to me. I get the
00:40:43
point of it. But man, I was like, I'm not sure what I think
00:40:47
about this chapter. So the gist of this is they're at a
00:40:51
conference. And he is presenting on his x ray, his dual x ray
00:40:58
technology and everybody's like over the moon about it. Everybody's
00:41:01
excited to go see his presentation. He's like, getting all
00:41:04
kind of like fanfare about it. The room is going to be packed
00:41:07
and they're expanding it to a bigger room. And then room 102,
00:41:11
you know, he's in room 101 room 102 is an MRI technology, so
00:41:15
nuclear MRI technology. And basically, it's like a ghost
00:41:19
room, like no one's there, just the presenter and like one or two
00:41:22
other people. And the the reveal of the chapter is my dual x ray
00:41:28
technology that everybody was so over the moon about. And I was
00:41:31
getting all kind of fanfare and fame over turned out to not be
00:41:36
the way the industry went. And the NMRI technology is the way
00:41:39
the industry went. And if you can, you should try to be in room
00:41:44
102, not room 101. And this is where it breaks down for me,
00:41:48
Mike, is because yeah, that's great. Hindsight's 2020, right?
00:41:54
Like when you look back on that and NMRI has taken has taken
00:41:57
over the world or whatever. Sure, that's fine. But like, nobody
00:42:01
knows that going into it. Like if I knew that going into it, I'd
00:42:04
be in room 102 every time. How am I supposed to know that? Like,
00:42:08
and how many other room 103s and 104s and 105s that could have
00:42:13
been a room 102 turned out to not be like, and they were just
00:42:16
like, so it's like, this one, I'm not as big of a fan of this
00:42:21
principle. I get it in general, take the risk, think about the
00:42:24
future, like, think about the new and innovative thing and all
00:42:28
that stuff. But I just think it's, I don't think it's practical.
00:42:32
Like, I don't think I think this one's really hard to do well.
00:42:35
So box, soapbox over. Good. All right. Interesting. I get it
00:42:40
from one perspective, you really don't know where things are
00:42:45
going to go. But I didn't have the same visceral reaction to
00:42:51
this that you did. And maybe that's because I've sort of trained
00:42:59
myself over the years to look for the next thing that's coming.
00:43:03
Okay. I mean, I've spent quite a few years creating on the
00:43:06
internet. And it was primarily about technology. So there's always
00:43:12
a new app, there's always a new system. There's always something
00:43:17
that is going to revolutionize things. And you kind of realize
00:43:21
after a while that the same boring principles apply throughout
00:43:26
throughout history. And they just, you know, they get a
00:43:28
different coat of paint. So I think the metaphor breaks down at
00:43:33
at some point. But the question in the back of my mind is always
00:43:38
like, what is the thing that's going to replace what I am
00:43:43
currently doing? That part translates, I think. I think it's
00:43:48
a big reason why I'm so all in with obsidian, because those
00:43:54
plain text markdown files literally can be anything. And
00:43:59
they could be nothing, you know, that's technology that's
00:44:01
been around for 20 years. So there's a very foundational layer
00:44:06
there. And I think I'm having a hard trouble describing this, but
00:44:11
he talks a lot about the contrarians and being open to new
00:44:15
ideas, new experiences, new people, new places, right? If you
00:44:20
are stuck in, well, this is the way things are. And these are the
00:44:27
systems that are in place, you're kind of limited in how you
00:44:31
think about those things, all you can really do is tweak those
00:44:35
and make adjustments and hope to improve the performance or the
00:44:39
efficiency of those things to a certain level. But not that I've
00:44:43
been around forever, but I feel like I've been around long
00:44:46
enough to recognize that there are occasionally these completely
00:44:51
disruptive shifts that happen. And everything that you knew was
00:44:54
was wrong. Right. And I feel like if you have, if you can
00:45:02
develop some sort of taste for that sort of stuff, you have at
00:45:08
least a little bit of an inclination when room 102 is going
00:45:14
to be interesting. Okay. And this may be a terrible, terrible
00:45:19
analogy, but I think I think this is a little bit what we see
00:45:26
currently with AI, because people are used to using AI in
00:45:31
specific ways, generates text, I don't like this text that it
00:45:35
generated. I think in terms of the AI adoption curve, the people
00:45:42
like me who are actually using it to code their own tools,
00:45:45
that's probably a very small percentage of people who are
00:45:48
doing that. But even that, I feel like is still room 101 type
00:45:55
stuff. And I'm kind of always curious about what is the
00:45:58
application of this technology that feels so off the wall right
00:46:05
now, but could end up changing the world in the future. Because I
00:46:07
think it really is a disruptive technology, it is going to
00:46:10
change the world. I don't know if that's a great, great
00:46:12
description. But those, those types of things where it's like,
00:46:15
okay, I kind of understand a little bit what this is about,
00:46:21
but letting your mind kind of wander and think about, wouldn't
00:46:25
it be crazy if, you know, that's sort of the whole premise of
00:46:29
the amplify cohort, I get that right now, it feels completely
00:46:33
ridiculous to say that you can actually use AI in the creative
00:46:36
process to make yourself a better writer. But I am 100%
00:46:41
confident that history will bear that out. Right, we don't
00:46:44
know how we get to that point right now. People are struggling
00:46:47
with it. I don't want to read all this AI slop. I keep coming
00:46:52
across these tools that will tell you like, how much percent of
00:46:56
this was written by AI, you know, that type of stuff. Yeah, like
00:47:00
in the academic world in the journalistic world, I understand
00:47:04
where that stuff can be useful. But also, that stuff kind of
00:47:06
bugs me because it's like, who really cares? That's focusing
00:47:10
on what problem right now, which is going to be relevant in six
00:47:14
months, how's it going to be relevant? I have absolutely no
00:47:16
idea. I just know it's going to change, it's going to change a
00:47:18
lot. It's changing so fast that like six months from now, you're
00:47:21
not going to be able to remember what the use case was for
00:47:24
something like that. So being able to surf those waves, I feel
00:47:28
like that's the thing that maybe, I don't know, you do it enough,
00:47:31
you start to get a feel for this wave is actually going to turn
00:47:35
into something.
00:47:36
Yeah, I fight that battle all the time where it's like, you
00:47:39
know, people put their head there. But the percentage calculator
00:47:42
came back and I'm like, yeah, but do we really care? Like, I mean,
00:47:45
did they like, what have they coached it? Well, like, that's
00:47:47
okay. Like, they're still doing something behind there. You're
00:47:50
to your point, though, what I really liked that you brought up
00:47:52
is this chapter was good in the contrarian thing that like, I
00:47:57
really liked how it wasn't just being negative is the wrong
00:48:01
word. It wasn't just being counter for the sake of being
00:48:03
counter. It's like thinking independently. It's like seeing
00:48:07
these new ideas. So thank you for reminding me of that, because
00:48:10
that like, that was a good part of this chapter that I got in a
00:48:14
little too focused on the future aspect of it is like, how are
00:48:16
we going to know? But really, it's just being open, like to new
00:48:20
ideas. I think that's more of the driver of this than anything. So
00:48:22
thank you for that. That helps me out.
00:48:24
Yeah. And then he also mentions in this chapter, Richard Feynman,
00:48:28
and his approach to things, the guy with the 12 favorite
00:48:33
problems, had an action item with that not too long ago, I
00:48:37
figured a book that was actually from, but says that Richard
00:48:40
Feynman didn't just challenge assumptions, he destroyed them.
00:48:44
That's the approach I want to have, you know, when everybody's
00:48:47
like, you can't use AI in the writing process, like, Oh, yeah,
00:48:50
watch me.
00:48:52
Watch me. There's probably probably a little bit like, I'm a
00:48:55
little bit of a that's part of that is my personality. And that's
00:49:00
probably not necessarily a good thing all the time. I was
00:49:03
talking to Kat Mulvahill for the Focus podcast. And she does
00:49:08
this thing. She does this like coaching stuff on like immunity
00:49:12
to change. And we ended up talking a little bit about Gretchen
00:49:16
Reuben's four tendencies. And basically, the four tendencies
00:49:22
are the combinations of how you react to internal and external
00:49:27
expectations. Right. So if you tend to accommodate externally,
00:49:33
but resist internally, you're sort of like an obliger as an
00:49:38
example. Well, I am a rebel. I resist all expectations all the
00:49:42
time. Nice. This explains so much Mike, this explains so much in
00:49:47
our multiple years of doing this thing. I know, right? I'm
00:49:50
kidding. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. All right. Let's move to
00:49:54
chapter seven if you're good with it. Yep. All right. So
00:49:57
chapter seven is living your life in reverse. And essentially,
00:50:03
the nature of this one was he's riding in his car in India.
00:50:12
The and he's with his wife. And basically he's describing like
00:50:16
the way they drive and like it's kind of crazy. And there's not
00:50:20
seat belts and all this stuff. And then this little five year old
00:50:22
girl runs out in front of the car. They she ends up getting hit
00:50:26
and she ends up getting killed. And in the thing that I kind of
00:50:32
was like frustrated by this was his like takeaway was like, I'm
00:50:35
gonna eat the chocolate chip cookies, right? Because like he
00:50:38
was talking about this high cholesterol and chocolate chip
00:50:40
cookies. But basically it was like, it's this idea of each day
00:50:47
try to do something meaningful. I think that was the bigger thing
00:50:50
I took away from this was like, you don't know what's going to
00:50:52
happen in the future. So each day, try to do something meaningful.
00:50:55
He does talk about David Brooks, which we've read that book,
00:51:01
you know, that was how to live a meaningful life, wasn't it? No,
00:51:04
David Brooks, I mixed up David Brooks and Arthur Brooks. I want
00:51:08
to say David Brooks was the second mountain.
00:51:12
Yeah, so anyhow, so you referenced as David Brooks in this in
00:51:15
terms of meaning and those kind of things. But like, essentially,
00:51:20
the nature of this is it's the I've heard this put this way
00:51:24
before, whereas you write your eulogy, and you write what you
00:51:27
want people to read about you, and then you try to live your
00:51:31
life in a way that that becomes that becomes true in terms of
00:51:34
that. So big story to tell us are a big like dramatic story.
00:51:39
This one, I thought this one was really dramatic. I wasn't
00:51:41
ready for for that to be the end of the story. But it's this
00:51:45
idea of like, Hey, think about the way you want things to end,
00:51:47
and then how do we live lives in a way and structure our lives
00:51:50
in a way that actually achieves that.
00:51:53
Yeah, he had a phrase in here. I heard somebody from some other
00:51:57
book that we read mentioned this, the similar idea about like,
00:52:01
what it's the movie of the life that you're making. He says
00:52:04
you're regularly and often you should play back the video of
00:52:06
your life and see what kind of movie you're making. I think
00:52:08
that's a cool idea. He did mention the the eulogy thing. That's
00:52:13
one of the things I jotted down and talked to you about that
00:52:15
actually comes from Warren Buffett. He said that you should
00:52:17
write your obituary and then figure out how to live up to it.
00:52:20
Have you done this? I have not I've not done this. You're gonna
00:52:24
do it? I should. You should. Yeah, I should. I should. I'll
00:52:28
share mine. I have it as an obsidian note. I was gonna say,
00:52:31
isn't this it wasn't this in your in the oh my gosh, well, I
00:52:36
want to say the vault, but that's not right. Help me with the
00:52:39
name of the the asset that people buy from you. Life HQ. Life
00:52:44
HQ. I was gonna say, I couldn't think of it. I was like, it's
00:52:46
not life theme, but life theme was the only thing that was
00:52:48
running out of their head. Isn't this part of your life HQ?
00:52:51
I mean, kind of it's also part of the life theme stuff. I
00:52:54
mean, it's in life HQ because life HQ, a big part of that is
00:52:57
like the personal retreat stuff. So all the temple files are in
00:53:00
there and then they're linked and things like that. But just to
00:53:03
give you an example, I can share my I have a note. It's called
00:53:07
my eulogy. I read it every quarter. So Mike Schmitz was a
00:53:10
loving husband to his wife Rachel and ever present father
00:53:13
to Toby Joshua, Jonathan Malekai and Adelaide, his family was
00:53:15
his first ministry. He always made sure they were priority.
00:53:18
You frequently said no to work and business opportunities to
00:53:21
spend quality time and go on adventures with the people he
00:53:23
valued the most. Mike was also a committed member of his
00:53:25
church when he wasn't spending time with his family. He could
00:53:27
often be found serving there. He believed that God had blessed
00:53:30
him richly. He gave generously of his time and treasure to
00:53:32
those who had need. He invested heavily in others and did his
00:53:35
best to help them reach their full potential. Mike's life was
00:53:38
driven by a desire to be a good steward of what was entrusted
00:53:41
to him by God. He desired to inspire, encourage and teach
00:53:44
others to connect to their calling, discover their destiny,
00:53:46
live the life they were created for. Everything he did was
00:53:49
filtered through his life theme and he helped others to accept
00:53:52
responsibility, gain clarity, take action and living a purpose
00:53:55
driven and meaningful life. He helped countless people find
00:53:57
their why, multiply their time in town, leave a bigger dent in
00:54:00
the universe. This is the part that always freaks me out when I
00:54:03
read it. He was an entrepreneur who loved building businesses
00:54:06
and making art before he died. He wrote several New York Times
00:54:09
best-selling books and gave away over $10 million to causes he
00:54:12
believed in. He taught his kids to be lifelong learners and to
00:54:16
discover their own creativity. They have followed his footsteps
00:54:18
as creative entrepreneurs who live life on their own terms.
00:54:22
That's awesome, man. Yeah, that's awesome. Yeah. And I share
00:54:26
that because every time I share it in the cohorts that we do
00:54:31
inside the library, people are like, wow, that's amazing. And
00:54:36
every time I'm, I don't want to share it. I feel I don't like
00:54:39
being the in the spotlight. But I like giving people an example
00:54:44
of what that looks like. And then once people can see it, then
00:54:48
they're like, I now get why this would be valuable for me to do.
00:54:53
And then when people come back and they say they did it, like,
00:54:56
that was the most fulfilling exercise I ever did.
00:55:01
Oh, and it's really good. Like it actually is inspiring to like
00:55:04
think about like, what would I want it to say? And then you
00:55:06
also think about like, okay, I don't want it to be vain, but I
00:55:10
want it to be honest. But like, I want it to also be like, what
00:55:15
am I thinking? Like reaching like, I want it to like,
00:55:17
aspirational. Yep, aspirational. There you go. Like, I want
00:55:19
it to be aspirational. Like, so man, like that, that's really
00:55:22
good. I like that a lot.
00:55:23
I support this action item. Yes, I have added this as an
00:55:27
action. I need to. I'm not looking forward to this. I don't
00:55:30
want to do this because this is going to take me entirely too
00:55:33
long because I care about it. And I don't want to care about it.
00:55:36
Like I want to say. Thanks for that, Mike. Sorry. Yeah. Okay.
00:55:44
Anything else on this one? No, it's going to hit up. Okay. So
00:55:48
chapter eight, the calculus of success. So the story behind
00:55:53
this one is he's putting together the reunion, the reunion
00:55:58
for MIT, where he got his undergraduate engineering degree.
00:56:01
Oh, yeah, I forgot he also graduated with an engineering
00:56:03
degree. But he, where he's undergrad at MIT, put the other
00:56:08
union and they always give a gift. The class gives a gift. So
00:56:11
he's trying to raise money and help raise money for the gift.
00:56:14
And this is the typical old, the guy slept in the back row, he
00:56:18
never turned in his homework, you know, da, da, da, right? And
00:56:23
he ends up finding Vodafone, or sorry, Veraphone, excuse me,
00:56:27
Veraphone, which basically verifies all the like credit card
00:56:30
transactions. And this guy's like uber millionaire, like super,
00:56:35
super wealthy and all this stuff. So that's the story that he
00:56:38
tells behind it. He basically then goes into the calculus,
00:56:42
which I think is like a clever wordplay, because he starts to
00:56:44
put in some equations here. Success equals preparation plus
00:56:47
opportunity. Preparation equals innate ability plus hard
00:56:50
work. Opportunity equals luck plus the ability to recognize
00:56:53
it. Now, where I as a math guy go, wait a minute, you totally
00:56:58
missed the opportunity here. Why didn't you combine all of
00:57:02
these into it and have it say success equals innate ability
00:57:05
plus hard work plus luck plus ability to recognize it. But he
00:57:08
didn't do that. He left it in the separate chunks of it.
00:57:12
I actually think like what he what he's describing here is
00:57:15
is really good. Like you need to be prepared for when the
00:57:18
opportunity arises for you to be prepared. There is some level
00:57:22
of ability that you need to do, but you also need to work hard.
00:57:25
And then opportunity is luck. And then can you recognize when
00:57:30
when luck hits you? Like I think these ideas are, I mean,
00:57:34
really, really valuable in terms of just kind of setting the
00:57:38
stage for kind of seeing things come and it depends on how you
00:57:44
define success. But I think this actually makes a lot of sense
00:57:46
in terms of giving you a different way to think about
00:57:49
success. If I'm if I'm remembering correctly, Mike, does he
00:57:53
talk about here the the adage of Oh, yeah, be nice to your A
00:57:59
students, because they are your future colleagues and fellow
00:58:03
faculty members, but never, but be even nicer to your C
00:58:06
students when they're going to come back one day, they're going
00:58:08
to come back and they're going to buy you a new building. That's
00:58:10
for for academia. And there's another one that it's like, I
00:58:14
don't remember what is a a students end up teaching or C
00:58:18
students end up getting the work done. Like there's another
00:58:20
saying there too. So what I'm getting out of this chapter is
00:58:24
you should be a C student because they're the most successful
00:58:26
people that's ever, well, I think the the point he's making is
00:58:33
that the successful people aren't always the ones that you
00:58:35
thought they would be. I feel a little bit silly because I
00:58:37
didn't I didn't make make the connection that success equals
00:58:41
preparation plus opportunity. Then he broke those two down into
00:58:44
the other other pieces and you could have just come back
00:58:47
to home. Yeah, bother me the whole time. But the thing
00:58:53
that that stood out to me the most from this section is towards
00:58:56
the end. And I feel like this is really the best advice in
00:59:00
terms of like, what do you actually do with this? If you're
00:59:03
not an academia, and you don't need the reminder to be nice to
00:59:05
see students because they might come back and be your biggest
00:59:09
beneficiaries, says that bad luck will come to you. But those
00:59:14
who get lucky have just prepared themselves to accept
00:59:16
occasional setbacks and troubles as inevitable and take
00:59:20
advantage of good opportunities when they come. So I feel like
00:59:24
the skill that the C students have that allows them to be so
00:59:29
successful in the long run really is like resilience. And
00:59:33
they're playing the long game, they just keep doing the thing
00:59:37
long enough that success comes. That's not exactly what he's
00:59:41
saying. But that was the big takeaway for me. I don't have an
00:59:43
action. I'm associated with it. But just stick with it. You
00:59:47
know, don't quit. And eventually it will it will all work out.
00:59:52
Yeah, he ties back into a earlier chapter here where he talks
00:59:56
about the most important of all in the calculus of success is
01:00:00
understanding your own internal clock and your own your own
01:00:04
honest feelings about what makes you happy. And then it might
01:00:06
change. And it's like, that's interesting as well, because
01:00:10
you know, like, I've heard multiple people talk about this
01:00:12
that it's like, what, what is the goal when you're 20? What the
01:00:16
goal is when you're 20 may not be the goal when you're 40. And
01:00:19
it may not be the goal when you're 60. And it may not be the
01:00:21
goal when you're 100. And it's like, I totally understand how
01:00:25
that's the case being, you know, 41 at this point. It's like, man,
01:00:30
man, if my goals change, like if I go back and look at my
01:00:32
journal from when I was in college, it's like the things I had
01:00:35
written down in that journal are still cool. Like I'm okay with
01:00:39
those. But my perspective on life has just changed so much in
01:00:42
the in the 20 years or 20 plus years since I've written those
01:00:45
down, it's kind of wild. So I think the core crux of this of
01:00:50
this chapter is good. I just really wanted them to put it
01:00:54
together as one equation.
01:00:55
Yeah, I get that. Mind if I do the next chapter, I'd love it.
01:01:00
Okay, so chapter nine career planning is an oxymoron. And
01:01:06
the story here is the most interesting one to me of the
01:01:09
entire book, because I have been a fan of the Bose company for a
01:01:14
long time. But I never really understood the story. It was
01:01:17
started by a guy named Omar Bose. And the story in the chapter
01:01:21
is about this like breakthrough suspension system they have for
01:01:27
cars. And that's not what we think of Bose. That's not the
01:01:33
picture that comes to mind when we picture the Bose brand. And
01:01:36
I'm curious, Corey, what do you think of when you think of
01:01:39
Bose?
01:01:40
Oh, speakers, speakers and their curve and their their software
01:01:44
based curve that I think of. Yep, yeah, absolutely. So it's
01:01:49
interesting, like they've they're always considering, I think
01:01:54
that's evidence of the fact that they're always considering
01:01:57
that the tangential problems and opportunities that are sort
01:02:02
of related to the problem that they're they're currently
01:02:04
solving. Now, Omar Bose sounds like a very interesting guy. And
01:02:08
there's a quote that I jotted down here from that story. He
01:02:10
says, I don't care what answers you get. He's talking about
01:02:13
when he was teaching at at, I forget this, the specific school.
01:02:18
Maybe it was John Hopkins, I don't remember. But before he went
01:02:21
out and he started all the companies and doing all these
01:02:23
crazy things, he was teaching and he said, I don't care what
01:02:25
answers you get. I already know the answers. What I want to see
01:02:28
is how you approach solving the problems. I love that. That
01:02:32
might be my favorite line in the whole book. I mean, this
01:02:36
chapter in and of itself, Career Planning is an oxymoron.
01:02:39
That's interesting to me because I have a freshman going into
01:02:43
college and he's trying to figure out what are the classes
01:02:46
that I sign up for and got an email today as a parent, you
01:02:50
know, they have major specific tours so you can go through and
01:02:54
see all the buildings for the major that you've chosen. And I
01:02:58
remember he made a comment about one of the statistics. Maybe it
01:03:04
was the last book I read. I'd remember something like 29% of
01:03:09
people who actually get a degree have a job in that particular
01:03:12
field. And he's like, yes, wow, that's not, that's not very
01:03:15
much. Like, yeah, I know. Isn't that crazy? So I don't know,
01:03:20
like, it's kind of interesting to me how all this stuff comes
01:03:22
together in this chapter and I think he weaves it together
01:03:24
really well. Because he talks about how you can't predict the
01:03:29
future. In fact, you can't even imagine what the opportunities
01:03:33
are going to look like when you get there. I feel like that is
01:03:36
a very important perspective to have. Just be curious, don't
01:03:41
try to plan it all out, figure it all out because you have no
01:03:44
idea how it's all going to connect. And instead of choosing
01:03:47
a career for the rest of your life, think about what's worth
01:03:50
trying next. What is the next problem that I want to try and
01:03:57
solve? So that doesn't go back to the title, it doesn't mean that
01:04:00
you shouldn't be thinking about what's the career trajectory or
01:04:04
your career arc, you shouldn't be thinking about what is the
01:04:08
major that you're going to declare for or, you know, how you
01:04:12
want to climb whatever ladder it is that you're trying to climb
01:04:15
to get to the position that you want to be in. But you should
01:04:18
absolutely be open to something coming in and disrupting all
01:04:22
of it. And looking for those things, because those those
01:04:26
catalyst events, I feel like there's a lot of opportunity
01:04:30
with those. Although a lot of times when they come, they feel
01:04:34
like that's the asteroid that just hit earth and wiped out all
01:04:37
the dinosaurs and life is over. We don't know where to go now. If
01:04:41
you can keep yourself from falling into that sort of emotional
01:04:47
state, I think you can navigate that stuff pretty well, you
01:04:50
navigate it much better regardless. But I think that's how
01:04:53
you really take advantage of those those opportunities and
01:04:56
those those sorts of sorts of times and periods.
01:04:59
Yeah, I mean, you you called out the one I wanted to call out
01:05:03
was basically, I'm like frustrated. I'm kind of mad because
01:05:07
like, you're growing up and everybody's like, well, go find
01:05:10
your calling, go find that thing you're supposed to do. It
01:05:13
was like, I feel like that has been more of a hindrance in my
01:05:16
life than it's ever been a help in my life. It's like, Oh,
01:05:19
there is one thing out there that you're supposed to do. It's
01:05:21
like, no, there might be like 75 things out there that you're
01:05:25
going to be really good at and you want to do. And you got to
01:05:27
figure out which one of those you want to do. And I love that
01:05:29
idea of what's worth trying next. You said it so well, that
01:05:34
doesn't mean you don't think about the long term, like, and
01:05:37
you don't think about like where this is going. So for
01:05:39
instance, if long term you think you want to work in
01:05:42
healthcare, but you're like not doing anything related to
01:05:46
healthcare, that's probably bad, right? Like, like, that's
01:05:48
probably not a great, a great plan. But like, it doesn't mean
01:05:53
you can't go from nursing to pediatric nursing to radiology
01:05:58
to whatever, like whatever it might be, like, there's a
01:05:59
bunch of different ways that you can fulfill that. And I just
01:06:01
don't think we teach people enough, especially young people,
01:06:04
I don't think we teach young people enough. And now we've
01:06:06
got a whole group of 40, 50, 60 year olds who have come into
01:06:11
this world and AI comes out and it's completely changed their
01:06:14
world and they're like, well, what do I do now? Like, and
01:06:17
they're like just completely lost. Like, they're absolutely
01:06:20
lost. And I think it's a, it's a travesty, honestly. And I
01:06:23
don't even think you need to pick one thing for right now. I
01:06:26
think it's possible that you can do multiple things. You just
01:06:30
can't do you can't go all in with multiple things. I remember
01:06:35
reading a book a while back. I think it was called How to Be
01:06:39
Everything by Emily Wopnick. And the idea behind it was that
01:06:45
there are like these different avatars for types of people who
01:06:50
go through life and the career arcs that they take. And the one
01:06:55
that Emily was advocating for was the multi potential light.
01:07:00
Right. So you want to be an artist, you want to be a writer,
01:07:05
you want to be all these different things. And then you
01:07:07
figure out how you can do those things together at the same
01:07:10
time. It doesn't mean you're going to be a professional
01:07:12
artist, a professional athlete and a professional writer all at
01:07:15
the same time. But if those are three itches that you want to
01:07:18
scratch, you can certainly figure out a combination of things
01:07:21
that lets you do that.
01:07:24
Yeah, I think I think you're hearing from us that this was a
01:07:27
pretty good chapter. This was an interesting chapter in terms
01:07:29
of the way it encouraged us to think differently. Okay, let's
01:07:33
move on to chapter 10. The bleeding always stops. So this was
01:07:38
a somewhat dramatic example on this one. But basically, there's
01:07:46
a guy he's teaching people how to do open art surgery, and to
01:07:50
work on, you know, the vessels and the aorta and all this stuff.
01:07:55
And one of his he would let his students or his residents do
01:08:00
the work and then he would like guide them and coach them while
01:08:02
they're doing the work. And what this one individual was doing
01:08:05
doing the work on and they they nicked the aorta. And basically
01:08:09
it started bleeding. And like the way they described the bleeding
01:08:11
is pretty aggressive in terms of like, it was like a fountain
01:08:14
shooting up in the air or whatever. And it was hitting the
01:08:17
lights in the operating room. There you go. Yeah. Okay, thank
01:08:20
you. I knew it was I knew it was dramatic. I couldn't remember
01:08:22
that phrase. And and basically he makes a statement. He's like,
01:08:26
well, the bleeding always stops, whether it stops because you
01:08:30
stopped it, or whether it stops because the person ends up
01:08:32
dying and the bleeding stops. And it was like, it's such a, it's
01:08:37
such like a aggressive yet true statement. You know, like, I
01:08:42
mean, it's just the way it is is like, it's going to stop. Are
01:08:45
you going to be, are you going to have agency in the way it
01:08:48
stops? Or are you just going to let it happen to you? And then
01:08:51
you're going to deal with the consequences of that, you know,
01:08:53
down the road. And he gets into here where he talks about
01:08:57
system one and system two thinking from Daniel Kahneman. He
01:09:00
talks about decision making and decision trees and checklists,
01:09:05
and these kinds of things. So it's all this idea around
01:09:10
basically, like, which set of thinking are we going to engage
01:09:15
in this process? And how are we going to engage in this process
01:09:17
to make better decisions overall? That's kind of what I took
01:09:20
away from this mic. I don't know if you if you took something
01:09:23
different away from this, but that's the gist of what I got
01:09:25
from this chapter. I don't even know what I took away from
01:09:28
this chapter, but the story is a little bit, it's extreme.
01:09:33
Yeah, it is extreme. And it it's a little bit jarring. And you
01:09:37
kind of like don't know where to go from there. I guess it's
01:09:39
kind of the point because he talks about fight versus flight
01:09:41
versus freeze a lot in here. And kind of like, what do you do
01:09:46
when you find yourself in dire circumstances? Because you're
01:09:51
nervous system is going to become overwhelmed with fear. And
01:09:54
then that's what kicks off that fight versus flight versus
01:09:57
freeze. I guess the thing that I took away from this is that
01:10:04
that fear response, when it kicks in, you have to recognize
01:10:10
it and then sort of steer it. Because if you just let it run
01:10:15
that fear response is often self destructive. I have no idea
01:10:21
like what to actually do from this, but the big aha moment, I
01:10:25
guess, is when you have one of those trigger moments and you
01:10:29
find yourself in that that situation, just not that that's
01:10:34
the time when you're when you're going to be like, okay, let's
01:10:36
just slow down and let's think rationally about this. But
01:10:39
recognizing what goes on, I guess is helpful because he also
01:10:43
says that it's common to seize an incorrect anchor when you're
01:10:46
in that state of fear. And that 100%. I agree with that 100
01:10:51
percent, that is absolutely true. But again, it's one thing to
01:10:54
say, well, next time I get upset emotionally, I'm going to
01:10:58
push back on that fear and see things more clearly. And it's a
01:11:04
totally different thing to actually do that.
01:11:07
Yep. Yeah, I this one is a hard one tangibly for me to take
01:11:11
anything away from like I like the higher level idea. But I had a
01:11:15
hard time taking anything away from that one too. Yeah,
01:11:17
exactly. Okay, so chapter 11, let's roll into the three snakes
01:11:22
rule. So you're gonna have to help me with the story on this
01:11:25
one, because I vaguely remember the story, but I didn't write
01:11:28
down enough notes on this one. I don't even remember the story
01:11:31
to tell you the truth. I did write down the three rules though.
01:11:33
Yeah, the three snakes rule is basically kill the snakes you
01:11:36
see. Don't play with dead snakes. And then the best
01:11:40
opportunities start out looking like snakes. Okay. And this
01:11:44
story had something to do with a guy named Jim Barksdale. And
01:11:48
he was the chief operating officer or former chief operating
01:11:51
officer of FedEx. And he became the Netscape CEO. But he
01:11:56
basically like dismissed the idea of I have to go to business
01:12:00
school to in order to be successful. And he was basically
01:12:03
like, no, I'm not gonna do that. I'm just gonna go out and get
01:12:05
it done. I'm gonna go do the work. So like, I don't remember a
01:12:09
ton about what what it was. I remember there's a story about
01:12:13
cubicles in here and how cubicles are terrible. I remember
01:12:16
that like we're we're looking at the idea of MBAs and whether
01:12:21
they make sense. And he there's an adage that I don't know if
01:12:25
folks have known this thing or not. But they say if you don't
01:12:27
get an MBA from one of the top 10 schools, it's pretty much
01:12:30
not worth getting an MBA. You're you're better off just going
01:12:32
to work in business, which I've heard that before because the
01:12:36
MBA at the top 10 schools is really for the network. It's
01:12:38
much less about the actual MBA. It's more for the network. And
01:12:42
then he ties into a general Brent Scowcroft and about how
01:12:48
the guy had a good idea for, you know, kind of knowing what
01:12:54
questions to ask. Yeah, I mean, like, it's an interesting
01:12:58
chapter. I guess we should go into the snakes thing before.
01:13:01
Okay. So rule number one, if you see a snake kill it, that
01:13:04
basically everywhere has a problem. Like all of these
01:13:07
organizations, any anything you're involved in has a problem.
01:13:11
Instead of just identifying it and saying, look, over there,
01:13:14
there's a problem, actually fix the problem. Like go in there,
01:13:18
get rid of the problem, kill the problem, kill the snake. That's
01:13:22
that's rule number one. Anything to add before we go to two,
01:13:24
like, no, I just think this is kind of ridiculous, to be
01:13:28
honest, like these don't even they're a little bit
01:13:30
contradictory. They, man, don't play with snakes, but keep
01:13:35
them around because rule number three, the best opportunities
01:13:37
to start out looking like them. Like, yeah, agreed, agreed.
01:13:41
So okay, rule number two, right? So we're going to realize
01:13:42
you don't play with dead snakes. Once you've taken care of a
01:13:45
problem, don't continue to fret or think about it, right? Like,
01:13:48
well, okay, I get that. But like, also, there's institutional
01:13:52
memory. So it's like, we got to fight institutional memory as
01:13:55
well. Like, we got to fight the fact that like, what I thought
01:13:57
was a snake that I went and killed, somebody else might have
01:14:01
thought that was the greatest thing ever. And I just killed
01:14:04
their their snake, right? Or I just killed their their thing
01:14:06
that they thought was great. And there might be consequences
01:14:09
for that. So yeah, I get it, like, don't look in the past, keep
01:14:14
moving forward. But at the same time, I may not be able to do
01:14:17
that. So that might be like really, really hard. That's two,
01:14:19
don't play with dead snakes. As Mike brought up the best
01:14:23
opportunity, start out looking like snakes. Well, I thought I
01:14:25
was supposed to kill all the snakes. Like, if it looks like
01:14:28
snake, I'm going to kill it. But maybe that was a good
01:14:30
opportunity. And it's like, well, what the heck do I do?
01:14:33
Like, how do I dig? Because he says, let's dig a little deeper,
01:14:37
get to the root cause think of how the problem could be fixed.
01:14:40
As a leader, it's important for your team to triage, right,
01:14:42
what they're facing. All of this is fine and good. But like, I
01:14:45
think there is also a lot of luck in this. Oh, like, there was
01:14:49
that snake over there. We didn't kill it. It turned out to be
01:14:51
really good for us. Like that actually turned out to work out
01:14:54
in our favor. Well, that's not always my wise decision. That
01:14:59
might be the fact that I got super lucky and wasn't able to
01:15:01
kill that snake fast enough. Yeah. So this chapter felt to me the
01:15:06
most like business advice talks about culture. You mentioned
01:15:13
the cubicle thing earlier. And that is sort of the reason that I
01:15:18
asked, like, how did he land on the chapters and the the different
01:15:25
concepts that he included in this particular book? Because some
01:15:31
of these he's talking about, you're still always not going to
01:15:33
make you rich in chapter three, that's, you know, financial
01:15:36
stuff. There's a lot of medical stuff in here. Chapter nine, I
01:15:40
think it was the career planning stuff. It's sort of like
01:15:43
education. Right. And the business one in particular, maybe
01:15:48
because that's the world that I have experience in. It's like,
01:15:53
you're not really speaking to this very well. This was my least
01:15:58
favorite chapter of the book. And I hate the three snakes rules
01:16:04
that he like hung all of this stuff on. I think there's probably
01:16:08
some pretty decent points to be made in this this chapter. But
01:16:12
the way that they're packaged together just did not work for
01:16:14
me. Okay. Yep. I mean, I don't need to be little this anymore. We
01:16:18
can move. We can move forward. This is not either of our favorite
01:16:21
chapters for sure. No. Okay. So we get in chapter 12, last
01:16:26
chapter, bring home a winner. And in this one, he's he basically
01:16:33
gives us a story about how a man gets reassigned, I think to
01:16:38
Singapore, if I'm, if I'm remembering correctly, but he gets
01:16:42
reassigned and he actually kind of like hides the losses, he
01:16:47
like pushes the losses forward and then they keep piling up and
01:16:51
they keep piling up and basically he then some creative
01:16:53
accounting going on for sure. Yes. He then basically like loses
01:16:57
it all because he did too much creative accounting and the
01:17:02
whole bank goes under like it was a bearings bank and the whole
01:17:05
bank goes under because this man basically was so shady that
01:17:09
he he hit all the stuff and embezzled or fraud deal dealings
01:17:14
and stuff like that. But there's like a story on top of that
01:17:16
story that he tells the students and it's like basically
01:17:19
you're a salesperson and you're you have these targets and
01:17:23
somebody's trying to tell you to to inflate those targets and
01:17:26
you like know in your heart of hearts, I don't want to inflate
01:17:28
those targets because those targets are going to be hidden
01:17:30
hard enough to hit already. What do you do? Like do you be the
01:17:33
negative person in the room that says, Hey, these targets are
01:17:35
already ridiculous. I don't want to inflate them or do you make
01:17:38
the bad decision to inflate them, which then causes you to make
01:17:42
more bad decisions down the road and all this stuff. Now, Mike,
01:17:46
for the life of me in all this stories, I don't remember how we
01:17:51
get to bring home a winner other than like somebody's grandma
01:17:57
or something. I forget. Okay, is that what it was? Yeah, could
01:18:01
you reply five commandments? And I don't know how we got there
01:18:04
either to tell you the truth. This is a little bit of an
01:18:06
extension of chapter 11, although I do like the stuff that he
01:18:09
mentions in this chapter better. Okay, so he mentions, you know,
01:18:13
people pay close attention if you miss your targets, not if you
01:18:16
hit them. So the stories don't really do anything for me. But
01:18:19
ethical behavior doesn't require complex calculation.
01:18:22
Yep, that's important success is not a zero sum game. agree with
01:18:25
that 100%. The flows five commandments. So yeah, these are
01:18:28
basically just like grandma flows five rules for life sort of a
01:18:32
thing. Good manners never go out of style. That's rule number
01:18:34
one. Our commandment number one number two never go to someone's
01:18:38
house empty handed. Number three, you can't buy a good name, but
01:18:41
you can earn it. Number four, give respect, get respect and
01:18:44
number five, bring home a winner. Now bring home a winner. What
01:18:47
the heck does that mean? Yeah, because at the end, he kind of talks
01:18:51
about how really what it's saying is you should come home a
01:18:54
winner. Yeah. But yeah, it's a little bit of a stretch to get
01:18:58
there, I feel. Yeah. Yeah, I think this chapter was probably my
01:19:04
least favorite chapter of all of them like yours was chapter 11
01:19:07
with the snakes. Mine was mine was this one. I just did not I
01:19:11
mean, there's decent principles in here, but it's kind of a
01:19:14
conclusion chapter and this other principle chapter like all in
01:19:19
the in the same thing. I felt like it got muddied. I might have
01:19:23
just been tired by chapter 12 and I was like, okay, you know,
01:19:25
whatever, but like, you know, and he's then talking about how
01:19:29
like common sense isn't so common and like that principle
01:19:32
resonates with me. So he's trying to wrap it up and give this
01:19:35
last principle at the same time. It just didn't hit that hard
01:19:38
with me. Didn't hit that well with me. I wasn't a super big
01:19:41
fan of the way the book ended. Yeah, I don't think I really am
01:19:46
either. I think I understand how he got there. But I don't know
01:19:51
that I would have anchored on bring home a winner. Yeah, I
01:19:56
think maybe if I were to edit this book, I would do something
01:20:04
like keep going, keep growing, you know, the whole premise of
01:20:08
the uncommon sense. And there's a lot that goes into you being
01:20:13
successful beyond what you would understand or learn in a
01:20:17
typical school setting. That's like, that's good. And I don't
01:20:22
know that when it comes to the topic of uncommon sense, you're
01:20:25
like, okay, there, I know everything I need to know. So
01:20:28
that to me seems like a good way to end it is like, okay, now
01:20:31
you've got some basics, but just take this curious, I'm going to
01:20:35
continue to work on my self attitude with you as you go. I
01:20:39
think that's what he was trying to say with bring home a
01:20:41
winner. But yeah, not the way I would have would have done it.
01:20:45
Yeah, I mean, and then that's the last chapter. There is no
01:20:48
conclusion. So at this point, we have finished up uncommon
01:20:52
sense. We should roll into action items. I'll start with my
01:20:56
action items. It's the first one I have is ask yourself more,
01:21:00
what are they afraid of? So when I get into a situation where
01:21:03
somebody's acting irrationally, or I feel like they're over
01:21:06
reacting or whatever, instead of saying like, you know, I guess
01:21:10
instead of having judgment, like ask myself before I do that,
01:21:12
like, what are they afraid of? Like, is there something that
01:21:14
they're afraid of? And then can we identify that? And can we
01:21:16
actually address that thing? My second one in this because Mike
01:21:19
pressured me into doing this. And I'm not looking forward to it.
01:21:22
I'm going to write my eulogy. So these are the two things I'm
01:21:25
going to do for my action items. Mike, what are your action items
01:21:29
for this book? All right, I just have the one which is coming
01:21:35
from chapter seven. I forget who exactly said this. But one of
01:21:44
the people that he mentioned in the stories, they had this goal
01:21:51
of every day trying to do something to help three different
01:21:54
people. And I think that's a pretty cool rule, like a pretty
01:21:59
cool metric, I don't know that I necessarily want to like track
01:22:05
the specific instances. But he used examples of like sending an
01:22:09
encouraging text message or something like that. I want to
01:22:12
be able to do things like that on a regular basis. And I'm just
01:22:17
going to try to look for those opportunities and do it
01:22:19
multiple times per day. Nice. That's awesome. Okay, so next,
01:22:26
we're going to talk about style and rating. So my book, I get
01:22:29
to talk about style and rating first. So I told you I was jazzed
01:22:33
about this, right? Like I have a class that I've prepped that's
01:22:38
similar and feel to this. He was more theoretical. I want to be
01:22:41
a little more practical in this. I think his style with like the
01:22:45
storytelling, I 100% easily see how this man does this in class.
01:22:52
He runs it as a seminar. He took what he what he did in class,
01:22:56
what he normally talks about. And he's just basically wrote
01:22:59
about it. Like he was just like, okay, each chapter is going to be
01:23:01
one of the lessons I teach. And I'm going to write about it. I'm
01:23:04
going to try to put a big bow around it and, you know, put it
01:23:07
into written form that way it can live on past me. Totally
01:23:10
understand that. I think for my taste, there was too much
01:23:16
medical in this. And I understand that that's where he came
01:23:20
from. He came from medical. He came from radiology. He came from
01:23:22
all this. Like, so his examples were a little too grounded in
01:23:27
that they weren't diverse enough for what I was looking for in
01:23:31
that. I think that the principles could have been called out
01:23:38
much more clearly, much more cleanly and much more clearly,
01:23:42
that like you some of them you had to dig for you and be like,
01:23:46
well, what's the principle in here? And I don't know if it's he
01:23:49
may have said it in every chapter. He may have said, like,
01:23:51
the core takeaway of this chapter is blah, blah, blah. And
01:23:53
like in some form of that. But like there, it's really easy to
01:23:57
then put that at the end of the chapter, like a summary, like
01:24:00
core principle, uncommon sense principle one, blah. And like,
01:24:03
tell us what the principle is. Or at the end of the book, just
01:24:06
give us a list of the uncommon, like, the uncommon sense
01:24:09
principles. Like, I don't think those were would have been that
01:24:12
hard to do. And I think it would have significantly increased
01:24:15
my liking of the style of the book. Overall, the stories didn't
01:24:20
bother me. I thought the writing was good. Like, I had no
01:24:23
issues with the reading of it. I thought it was an easy like an
01:24:25
easy read in terms of it wasn't overly complicated for no
01:24:28
reason. I didn't think it was circular. I didn't think any of
01:24:31
those things were true. So now I get to where I'm going to
01:24:34
rate this book. And the rating is hard for me. Because while
01:24:39
there were some things that I thought were like really good.
01:24:42
And, you know, like, good takeaways, like the turtle on the
01:24:45
fence post, like, I love that. Like, I absolutely love
01:24:47
turtle on the fence post. It justifies reading the entire book
01:24:49
for me. So I'm good with that turtle on the fence post. There
01:24:52
were other things where I was just like, man, I just, I just
01:24:55
don't resonate with that one or as much or like, yeah, okay,
01:24:58
that is common sense to me. Like, that's not uncommon sense to
01:25:00
me. Like, that actually makes sense to me. So where I'm at, I'm
01:25:05
going to rate this book a four. Because it wasn't the worst
01:25:09
book. Well, sorry, it wasn't it wasn't bad, right? But at the
01:25:13
same time, it didn't like blow me away. It kind of sat in that
01:25:17
four range. I thought about giving it a three and a half. Just
01:25:22
because I was like, like, I mean, I don't know what I recommend
01:25:25
this one to people. Not really, I probably wouldn't. I would
01:25:30
recommend and Mike, you're like, your muffs don't don't yell at
01:25:33
me. I might recommend the Blinkist version of this to people
01:25:36
and be like, you can probably get what you need out of out of
01:25:39
the Blinkist version of this. You probably don't need to read
01:25:42
the whole the whole book and get all the stories out of this.
01:25:45
Will you be upset? No, but you probably don't need to read the
01:25:48
whole book. So for that reason, this book is a four teetering on
01:25:54
a three and a half to me, but I'm officially going to put it in
01:25:56
the in the books as a four. Mike, what's your rating?
01:25:59
All right. Well, I agree with most of the things that you said
01:26:04
there, but I'm going to rate it a three. Okay, that's good. I
01:26:08
think this book is got some interesting has some interesting
01:26:14
stuff in it, but it's sort of like it doesn't know what it
01:26:15
wants to be when it grows up. You mentioned like, not sure I'd
01:26:19
recommend this one. I don't think I would recommend it simply
01:26:22
because I don't know what problem it solves. Yeah. Yep. If you
01:26:28
want mental models, there's other books that are better for
01:26:32
that. Interesting stories. You know, I think if someone has a
01:26:36
medical background and they're kind of exploring this stuff
01:26:41
that you should have learned in school, but didn't topic, that
01:26:44
would be interesting. A lot of the names that he drops because
01:26:48
he is really well connected. I mean, he mentioned Michael
01:26:51
Bloomberg and the billions of dollars that he was worth, you
01:26:54
know, he rolls with some really high level people. So a lot of
01:26:59
the the stories that he shares are sort of like behind the
01:27:02
scenes of some of the biggest moments, it feels like from the
01:27:06
medical industry in the last what 40 years. So I think for
01:27:12
someone who is in that world, maybe the stories are are much
01:27:17
more impactful than they were to you and I. But in terms of
01:27:20
the everyday life principles that he talks about here, not one
01:27:27
of my favorite books understood. All right. So let's put
01:27:31
uncommon sense on the shelf. Mike, what's our next book?
01:27:35
The next book is the goal by Elia who gold rat. It's the 40th
01:27:44
I have the 40th anniversary edition. There have been over 10
01:27:47
million copies sold according to the red letters on the cover. And
01:27:53
looking at the cover, you're kind of wondering how that is the
01:27:56
case.
01:27:58
Don't judge a book by its cover, Mike. It's true. It's by its
01:28:02
cover. Yeah. Well, I think Mortimer Adler would disagree
01:28:07
with that a little bit. That's true. That's true. Yeah. It is an
01:28:11
interesting book on 300 pages into it. It's sort of a narrative
01:28:16
Patrick Lencioni style story about the principles and really
01:28:20
it's an introduction into the theory of constraints. So we're
01:28:24
talking about this one. And I picked this one because it came
01:28:27
up in some book that we read. And then you mentioned that it was
01:28:30
one of your favorite books. And I can totally understand why as
01:28:34
a engineering professor, like if you're in the engineering world,
01:28:40
I feel like this is in your sweet spot. So I, I'm looking
01:28:47
forward to the conversation that we're going to have about
01:28:49
this. I also have, by the way, I guess I should mention this as
01:28:53
my cat book. So I'll do it now though, since we're talking
01:28:57
about the goal, I have the goal of business graphic novel. This
01:29:01
is like a comic book version of the goal. And this is, let's
01:29:08
see, 130 pages. So if you don't want to read the 400 tech
01:29:14
space pages, and you just want general ideas from 130 comic
01:29:19
book style pages, I'll put a link to that one in the show notes
01:29:23
as well.
01:29:24
That's awesome. All right, so you, you gave it away. That's your
01:29:27
gap book for this week. Do you have any other gap books before I
01:29:30
give mine?
01:29:30
No, no, that's it. And I only show that as the gap book, because
01:29:33
it is literally the same as the actual book that we're going to
01:29:37
be reading as well. All right, but after the goal we're reading.
01:29:41
Okay, after the goal, we're going to read, you can just do
01:29:45
things by Kate Hall. This is a listener recommendation. So we
01:29:50
do have a form that you could fill out to recommend books that
01:29:54
fit the kind of the bookworm style and the bookworm ethos. So
01:29:58
if you're interested in that, take a look at the link and
01:30:01
shoot us a recommendation. So after that, you can just do
01:30:04
things by Kate Hall. So Mike gave his gap book recommendation. I
01:30:10
will not have any gap books because the semester is starting
01:30:13
next week, and I will not have time for any gap books right
01:30:16
now. So there are no gap books on my plate. We want to thank
01:30:22
everybody for listening to the show. We especially want to
01:30:25
thank those pro show members. The pro show this week was us
01:30:29
talking about what the future of bookworm might look like, and
01:30:33
you know, what the video would look like and what, you know,
01:30:36
kind of books we would talk about and those kind of things.
01:30:39
It was a fun, it was a fun thing for us to think about, you
01:30:41
know, the future of the of the show and where we could go and
01:30:44
what opportunities there are there. But if you're not
01:30:47
familiar with the the pro show format, it's a longer ad free
01:30:50
pro show. There is a bootleg that's released a week or two
01:30:54
early, basically right after we record, we try to get that up
01:30:57
as soon as we can. There's a bookworm wallpaper. Mike has
01:31:00
shared his reading masterclass with the with the pro show
01:31:03
members. It's $7 a month. And you can go to bookworm.fm/pro.
01:31:09
And we appreciate everybody who has done that and who is
01:31:11
willing to do that for us. All right, if you're reading along
01:31:14
with us, pick up the goal by Eli Goldrat. And we will talk
01:31:18
to you in a couple of weeks.